Jessie Buckley is brilliant as expected. Proving herself to be a true rising star in the acting game thanks to her turns in Beast (2017), Wild Rose (2018) and the TV drama Chernobyl (2019), Buckley shows off a flawless American accent as the Young Woman who descends into madness as she loses her grip on what she wants and what she should do with her life. Opposite Buckley is Jesse Plemons who has rapidly risen in the acting ranks in recent years. Known to most for his turn on the final season of Breaking Bad (2008-2013), Plemons has built a fantastic portfolio starring in films like The Master (2012) and Vice (2018). It’s refreshing to see both actors lead in a film that is reliant on their performances. The rapport between them is credit to the perfect casting and their ability to bounce off each other naturally despite the complexity of the writing.
In the supporting roles we have Toni Collette and David Thewlis as Jake’s parents who unsurprisingly bring phenomenal performances. Jake’s Mother is aloof and eccentric contrasted with his Father who is opinionated and direct. The casting again is top notch as it is great to see two relative newcomers and two acting veterans bouncing off one another and building onto the tension up to breaking point. Collette is flying high on a streak of brilliant roles she has taken in recent years including her lead performance in Ari Aster’s 2018 hit Hereditary and it’s nice to see Thewlis working with Kaufman again after playing the lead in the 2015 animated masterpiece, Anomalisa.
The dinner scene in which the new couple and the parents break the ice and get to know each other. What Kaufman has always been brilliant at is fleshing out his characters to a point where you know them but at the same time you don’t know everything about them. The characters cannot be fully trusted but because Kaufman writes it this way. These extra dimensions and layers allow the plot to naturally unravel. The film is directed from the Young Woman’s perspective so as she begins to doubt everything that happens, so does the audience. Its depiction of mental and emotional breakdown starts subtle but soon enough, the audience is thrust into a confusing narrative where stories change, the ages of characters change and even the protagonist’s name changes. The audience doesn’t truly know who the Young Woman is and so she could be any of these woman; a scholar, a waitress or an artist but her inner conflict in who she is and what she wants means that the uncertainties that unfold in Jake’s parents’ household are not as peculiar as it may seem.
Another unspoken aspect that is worth mentioning is the brilliant decision made to cut out music from the majority of it so the natural soundscapes provide the background noise. The opening piece composed by Jay Wadley is wonderfully intense underlying the horror aspects of the film as the Young Woman talks about her relationship and her outlook on life as a whole. The ballet sequence later in the film is driven by the musical narrative that Wadley composes and complimented the dancing perfectly.
Kaufman has knocked it out of the park again with his strong direction and distinctive writing and insight into the human condition. I’m Thinking of Ending Things is available on Netflix and I would definitely recommend giving it a watch. The ups and downs of the relationship is reminiscent of Kaufman’s screenplay for the 2004 film Enternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind while still remaining original and developing its own DNA. I wouldn’t be surprised to see I’m Thinking of Ending Things in discussion when it comes to awards season. Thrilling and indulgent, it is a film that demands to be watched more than once.
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For the score, Ramsay recruits Jonny Greenwood for the second time after her 2011 film We Need to Talk About Kevin. Like Joe’s character, the score flits between intense pieces with a strong and consistent beat which are usually played when he is on the job and more natural and flowing pieces which provide a backing track for scenes with Nina and his mother. The track, “Tree Strings”, which is played as Joe buries his mother is such a poignant moment and the music elevates the scene by assisting in his ephiphany to rescue Nina from her kidnappers. Greenwood is more widely known for his collaborations with Paul Thomas Anderson but his scores for both We Need to Talk About Kevin and You Were Never Really Here assist in elevating and excuting Ramsay’s vision to perfection.














